Thank you for the responses. I'll be on the phone today again looking for some aid.
To answer some questions:
The congregation knows about the molestation. He is in a small town and they have few active JW's so they keep who they have. THere are move-ins who I used to warn about him and was threatened with DFing. I since DA'd and don't have access to who they are to warn them.
I live in the US. My heart is in Scotland. Sorry for the confusion.
Legal aid only exists in two counties in the state. I don't live in either.
The children know of the situation with my father. They just say "we'll be careful". Which makes me sick.
I have spent $80,000 fighting against spiritual warfare. I just settled the last of it last month.
I'll call DCFS and the police right now. The problem is, I went to the state for a Protective order for them and my ex's attorney told the judge there is already wording covering it in the divorce, which there is. A divorce is a civil order which you go to court to enforce. A protective/restraining order would be criminal and would be a different ballgame. Last time I told them the civil order wasn't working that I needed the other, I was accused of "playing the courts."
I'll call StillConcerned also. She has known of the situation for years but I'll let her know nothing has changed.
Thank you all for the advise. I may need to represent myself.