Do you have a "Confidante"?

by JH 30 Replies latest jw friends

  • ButtLight

    Yes, I actually have a few. I would have to say my sister is the one I could tell anything to, and she would never judge me.

  • bikerchic

    Yes I do, my husband. He is my rock. He understands my quirky self and I understand his quirky self. Do I tell him EVERYTHING? No, I don't think it's fair to burden him or anyone with EVERYTHING that goes through my pea brain, or every emotion I have as they come and go and I'm pretty smart at handling most of them myself. But the important ones, the ones he needs to know I confide in him, he's awesome, he listens and he doesn't try to solve it, he will just listen and give me his shoulder to cry on.

  • kls
    Yep, well me myself and i .

    Actually most things i keep to myself but there is someone ,a very dear friend that i talk to from here that has helped me alot . I actually confided something that no one else knows. You know who you are and love ya to pieces.

  • schne_belly

    Yes, my dear husband. I tell him everything, my joys and my sorrows.....

  • ButtLight
    Yes, my dear husband.

    What am I to you? Just a crunchy princess??????????????

  • Golf

    Since jumping out of the box when I was a teeneager I've become my own advisor, decision maker. My association with older folks gave me a good back-ground to believe in myself. As to telling deep inner secrets, nope, I love suspense and mystery. My wife is still my best friend.


  • rocketman

    I confide in my wife. For example, a couple days ago she asked me how I became a San Francisco 49ers fan, and I poured out my deepest feelings to her right then and there. What a load off my shoulders!

    Not Much Of A Confidant-Seeker Class

  • delilah
    I learned very early on in life, how to build stone walls around my true feelings and thoughts. It's taken me all these years to finally open up, somewhat, and it's my husband who has helped me tear down the walls. ( suddenly Pink Floyd runs through my mind) But I don't always reveal everything. Some things are better left unsaid.
  • atypical


    I open up more on this board than I do to anyone in real life......

    I don't know anyone else who can handle the things I have learned about the org. Even all of my inactive and df'd friends still won't speak against the society. I don't want to mess with the only group of friends I have, so I keep quiet.

  • JH
    Yes, I actually have a few. I would have to say my sister is the one I could tell anything to, and she would never judge me

    That's nice to have people you can share your deepest thoughts with.

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