For me? Trying to get my shit straight. I just got married, so I'm trying to transition into that without causing my husband to go homocidal. I'm trying to get my mind cleaned up after living in denial for the last 8 years after leaving the Dubness-on-High.
But I think the most important thing in my life right now is me. I don't mean that selfishly...but I'm finding myself, inventing myself, building a life for myself. My husband and four kitties and my friends and my martial arts...that all comes under me.
Wow...that sounds really selfish. Strike that. It's all about the cats. I live to serve.
Forsharry of the "Non-hairball" Class