Well I still go out in service. So does my husband. We decided that since we have to keep up with this facade we might as well have some fun .
So we go up to a door and pretend to push the doorbell. What we really do though is push the screw on the doorbell.
No one is the wiser. We have even pushed the screw with other jdubs right beside us.
At the end of service we measure our success by the number of screws we pushed.
We usually have a good laugh