I've often reflected on this, if for no other reason than I'm a writer and therefore allow myself to entertain thoughts which more realistic folks would not.
I wouldn't change anything.
I learned, from the JW's to lose any fear of meeting new people, even in awkward situations. I learned to take charge of a situation, of a conversation. I learned to debate effectively. I was taught public speaking, and how to research and outline a sermon.
Even the negative experiences with the JW's became my strengths. From their authoritarian stance I learned to question authority. From the herd mentality I learned to think for myself and stand on my own. From their fear-mongering I learned the value of love and inner peace. From their cruelty I learned the value of gentleness. From their distrust of intelligence and science I learned the value of intelligence and science. From their slipshod research and convoluted reasoning, I learned how to properly research and to use valid logic. From their dishonesty I learned to be open.
I cannot think of anything I experienced with the JW's that I was unable to turn into a strength. I might have learned these lessons elsewhere under other less painful circumstances, but the lessons and the results would not be nearly as profound and lasting. Yes, I was hurt terribly (my next book details just how terribly), but ultimately I became a stronger wiser man for it.
Nate
Choices, if I could change only one.
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