I think at one point I agreed with you, Vinny... let sleeping dogs lie. But that dog doesn't have much of a bite anymore. If she did run to the elders the only impact it would have on my life is her. And that is her choice. I haven't a single friend left in the WT, and live in a metropolitan area, so rarely run into old JW acquaintances. Last summer I had a lengthy talk with an elder, (ran into him at the camera shop and "chatted" for about 90 minutes. There was NO doubt of my anti-JW feelings after that conversation,) and it had no impact on my daily life. My parents and my brother are the only ones of my immediate family that are JW, and my brother has said that he will now never shun me.
My dad, he will do what is right, no matter if is WT doctrine or not.
The line in the sand is my mother's, and I can choose to cross it or not, without getting too worked up over it. It's kind of a nice place to be. Don't get me wrong, I still HATE her religion, but it was her choice to make.