My wife is thinking AT LAST!!!!!

by tooktheredpill 63 Replies latest jw friends

  • tooktheredpill
    tooktheredpill

    Hey guys!

    I can't wait to tell you something that happened last night. In order to understarnd it, let me give you some details about me first: I'm still an Elder, with my wife and the whole family and friends inside the borg. My dad is an Elder, and my in-law is an elder too.

    I had a GREAT conversation with my wife last night. I've been showing her (for some months, and little-by-little) information that doesn't make sense to me anymore. (607, 1914, disfellowshipping, pedophile cases, etc.)

    In the beginning, I used to find "a wall", and she used to defend the organization immediately (as we were trained to do). But lately, she's been asking me questions, and looking for information by herself.

    I noticed that yesterday she started arguing with her parents (hardcore JW'S) about the "new light" issue. (I wasn't involved in the conversation in any way). She told them that the new light is RECYCLED!! She mentioned specific Rutherford publications that explained the "generation issue" in the 1930's, and then, she noticed how her parents didn't want to analyze the evidence!! She also explained them that it was not fair to disfellowship somebody for having doubts, while there are pedophiles in good stand in the congregation!!!

    She was really upset! Later, she vented with me, telling me that her parents didn't use their brains! I asked her: "Did you noticed NOW that we are really a sect? We need to comply with everything the Org. says, without thinking!"

    I think that this is great. And I hope that she is really waking up!!

    Please, keep us in your prayers. (And if you don't believe in God, at least wish me "Good Luck" ) Hehe!

    Have a great day!!!

  • megsmomma
    megsmomma

    WhooooooHooooooo.....I am so happy for you both! That is great news and I hope she continue's to progress....maybe we will see her here someday!

  • Mastodon
    Mastodon

    TTRP, that is awesome to read! I know your wife is a very bright woman and I think they way you are approaching the issues is working. Believe me, from experience I know that leaving that cult is much easier if your spouse is on the same page with you. Everybody else can suck a big fat one!

    When you can, give me a call, I want to talk to you about something else (but related)

    GOOD LUCK! ;)

  • babygirl75
    babygirl75

    I'm so happy for you!!!

    Thinking for yourself & freedom from the org is a wonderful thing!!

    Good luck!!! (don't currently pray, not sure what I believe as far as God anymore)

    babygirl...

  • outofthebox
    outofthebox

    That's amazing news :)

    That gives me hope that it is possible to help our family if we just stay inside for a little bit more. Some day the rest of my family (I hope) will wake up too.

    And ttrp, that is good advice you give here: Give them the info, little by little. Don't make them upset giving too much information at a time. That's a mistake I need to fix now.

    So, I pray for you AND i wish you luck too!

    Your bro,

    -ootb

  • OnTheWayOut
    OnTheWayOut

    Hey, great for you. I think you give many here lots of hope.

    So when your time comes, are you going to make the pilgrimage to
    Patterson for your intense training, or will you get out of it, or face the
    possibility of losing the eldership?

    Many will say you should go, for their own selfish reasons.
    I don't think I could keep a straight face through some of their "teachings."

  • sspo
    sspo

    That's great, very good news and i hope she will quickly realize it's nothing but a cult

  • changeling
    changeling

    That is very good news! Keep up the subtle appoach, it sems to be working.

    Have you shared with her the UN fiasco? You could pull the letter straight from the UN's website, no need to involve "apostates".

    The way she's feeling now, that issue could put her over the edge. It did it for me.

    changeling

  • Akira
    Akira

    I am happy for you. I know that her awakening will give you great relief and hope.

    Congrats!

    Akira

  • MissingLink
    MissingLink

    That's great. It has to be so much easier going thru this transition with someone by your side.

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