Thanks ... a lot!!!

by Rosalee 125 Replies latest members politics

  • Rosalee
    Rosalee

    When I came to this site, it was with a chip on my shoulder. I was upset because of something that had taken place in my congregation. Looking over the threads here I decided I'd jump in and cause some havoc. It wouldn't have mattered what the topic was ... I was here to vent. My vent was not directed in the proper manner though.

    Having solved the problem that started my posting here, I really should have packed my bags and left. But ... I kept looking in to see what was going on. Some posters do really have my sympathy ... some got a raw deal. We all are responsible for ourselves though and must see to it that mistakes get rectified.

    It took being dealt with in a poor manner by a poster here, in private that made me see that, as my mother says ... there is no honor among thieves. What many of you appear to be on this site is not a true picture. No reason it has to be ... just an honest assessment on my part.

    My problem is I think everyone is as honest with me as I am with them. I've lived a sheltered life .. obviously.

    The reason this thread is called ... Thanks ... is that my eyes have been opened to what to expect outside my safe haven. I will now view exjw's for what they really are. Not just disgruntled exes but ones who will do anything to dishonor the truth.

    So ... thanks a lot ... you've made me see where my loyalties lie.

    Rose

  • nvrgnbk
    nvrgnbk

    Good to see you, Rosalee.

    I wish you peace.

    That's no lie.

    I know why I left.

    Because it wasn't true.

    Simple as that.

    But if it works for you, that's what really matters.

    I'm sorry you had an experience with someone here that was disappointing.

    I think nearly all human interactions can lead to disillusionment, moreso when expectations are unrealistic.

    I sincerely wish you happiness and success in all you do.

    Your brother,

    Nate

  • eclipse
    eclipse
    I was upset because of something that had taken place in my congregation.

    Why did you not just share that when you came here?

    You would of gotten a completely different reception if you had.

    You were rude to many posters here, perhaps that was part of the reason why some were rude to you?

    I will now view exjw's for what they really are. Not just disgruntled exes but ones who will do anything to dishonor the truth.

    You are making a judgement of everyone here based on ONE person's treatment of you.

    That is irrational and illogical. It is not even close to reality.

    I hope that one day, you will see that the organization for what it is: a sham,

    I hope you get out while you have some good years left.

    I have no ulterior motive for saying this and nothing to gain, just being sincere.

    Take care of yourself Rosalee.

    -eclipse

  • BrentR
    BrentR

    JW's do not need us to dishonor them they are doing a superb all by themselves. If you have actually read the stories here and the news clips you will never hear about in a kingdom hall and some how think WE are dishonoring the JW's? All I see here on JWD is experiences that I have either experienced myself or have seen first hand.

    Yes there are some jerks and rude people here but I have yet to visit any forum that does not have a few. I have never seen a congregation that does not have some jerks and rude people either.

    We all have to make healthy choices and if you feel that going back to the Borg knowing what you know now then that is what you should do. But at least you will have a different set of glasses on now and can see through thier human interpreted doctrines. Never stop asking questions or questioning the answers.

    At least you know that you can always come back here without being shunned, marked or stigmatized in any way. Try doing that to the WTS after you formerly have denounced them.

    Good luck!

  • Open mind
    Open mind

    Hmmmm,

    I wonder how you feel about fence-sittin', double-dippin' guys like me? For all you know, I could be an elder (or a recently deleted one) in your Kingdom Hall.

    Careful about that "sheltered" environment you think you have.

    I truly wish you the best Rosalee.

    Come back anytime.

    Open Mind

  • the dreamer dreaming
    the dreamer dreaming

    can you feel the love?

  • Bobbi
    Bobbi

    Horse SH*t! and you know it. Get off your high horse and take a good look at everything around you.
    There is good and bad to everything. Congregations have their members who try their hardest to follow the rules and treat others well. We also find the takers and the users in the same group of people. Any forum you read has the same dynamic.
    If you are truly happy with your life and are unwilling to open your eyes, then go back to your sheltered life and stay there.
    Luke 6:31 (New International Version) New International Version (NIV)
    31Do to others as you would have them do to you.
    Bobbi

  • Rosalee
    Rosalee

    Boobi ... who shat in your poridge?

  • journey-on
    journey-on

    Rosalee

    I have a feeling you don't have children. I just hope and pray (yes, apostates do pray) that when you do,

    you will not raise them in this oppressive, suppressive, repressive organization of men.

    Nothing anybody can say will change you. You change yourself when it is time. If your heart is in

    the right place, you will be directed out of it. The key is your heart. If in your heart, you are serving

    an organization of men rather than the Christ who dwells within and does not need a building made of

    stone (with or without windows, I might add), then that is where you will stay. But, as for me, I will

    serve Him not some idol claiming to be his representative organization on earth. You are treading on

    dangerous ground, Rosalee, and you don't even know it. Search your heart and motives and pray. Don't

    pray that you have the strength to remain faithful to some misconception of what isThe Faithful and Discreet Slave.

    Pray that you be guided by Holy Spirit to find the Truth. Simple. Be open to Him and open your Heart and Mind to Truth.

    If you have any other motive, you are being lead by the wrong thing, my dear. Peace to you.......Journey-on

  • megsmomma
    megsmomma

    And when you are not ready....your not.

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