Thanks for your comments,
The counter indoctrination is a difficult one.
I feel that the direct approach, ie telling them all about the various prophetic failures, scandles, doctrinal issues, child abuse etc etc etc, might backfire in that if they have been warned that I may take that approach and may be on guard. I prefer to take a more subtle approach. In addition if I was caught in the act of blatant Apostacy they may attempt to DF me, which might cause the boys some problems.
I have told them that I do not mind if they choose to be JW's when they grow up as long as they have come to the decision themselves. In the meantime I expose them to many different aspects of life, travel, adventures, camping & skiing trips with my friends (so they can see that 'worldly' people are not evil).
They often tell me things that bother them about, for example, they hate going on the ministry, they do not like being controlled, and I use these occaisions to talk to them. Occaisionally I slip in the odd issue or ask them questions, such as, 'who is the king of the north now that the eastern block has fallen?', 'Do witnesses still believe that Armageddon will come before the generation that saw 1914 passed away?', 'Is it true that Witnesses are now allowed to Vote, with references to Malawi?'
They are bright boys and I feel that this way, I am not telling them, rather raising questions in their minds will be more effective.
Perhaps I could put more thought into this, for example I could research the WT article for Sunday and ask questions, or slip in the odd comment related to the article on the Saturday, this way their conclusion will be fresh in their minds when they hear the 'New Light' the following morning.
My younger son a few years ago told me that he did not think he would be a JW when he grew up. His reasoning was based on an incident when I gave them some books, (entirely suitable books for children) when they returned home the books were not even allowed in the house, the reasoning being that as the books had been in my home, they may be possessed by Demons. (True Story) The boys thought the whole incident was in their words, 'rediculous'. Another home goal from Witness Mother.
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