Gosh, you guys! This sounds like a heckuva life. Very hard. Slavery.
Joel, I can understand the appeal of the dorm life, always having people around to help 'fill the hole', so to speak. Maybe that's why they have it set up that way? Just another way to make people 'need' them.
I have a cousin who was/is (not sure if he's still there) at Bethel and have felt very sad for him since hearing about it.
Just wanted to jump in to say I admire you-all for your strength in being able to see your way through to freedom.
talesin