Anybody here ever go on chaperoned dates?

by unbeliever 26 Replies latest jw friends

  • unbeliever
    unbeliever

    I use to get the biggest chuckle when the elders insisted that when going out on a date that someone older and mature had to go with you to make sure you don't fornicate. How imposing!! I have a friend (did the fade) that was stuck with her brother being the chaperone a couple of times when she was dating her then boyfriend. Talk about crazy!!

  • Robdar
    Robdar

    I had to have a chaperone. My evil, younger brother was usually it (love you bro). Good for me that he could be bribed. I still laugh when I think back on it.

    Thanks for the memories.

    Love,

    Robyn

    Edited by - robdar on 29 January 2003 14:55:47

  • calamityjane
    calamityjane

    I use to be the evil little sister that had to be the chaperone for my older brother. Anyway he would usually go with a buddy and his girlfriend. I would take along my friend. We would sit in the back of the trunk of his car while he and his buddy made out with their girlfriend's inside. A lot of good that did. Our parents thought they we chaperoned. Hehehe.

    P.S. My brother is now andelder and thinks he holier than thou. But I know his secrets

  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    My brother who is 41 went out on a date with a girl from another Hall and had my Mother chaperone. Is that wierd or what?

    CG

  • TresHappy
    TresHappy

    Oh does that bring back bad recollections. I remember those chaperoned dates with some of the most boring men I have ever met....

  • refiners fire
    refiners fire

    Well once i organizede a date and when I rolled up to pick her up her father wouldnt let her come because the chaperone was a male. The guy was a pioneer for crying out loud.

    Another time I had to pay for the other couples meals at the restaraunt as well ( they had no money, I needed a chaperone....) It was an expensive night.

  • acsot
    acsot
    My brother who is 41 went out on a date with a girl from another Hall and had my Mother chaperone. Is that wierd or what?

    Weirder still is someone I know who is 45, going out with an elder who is 48, and they need a chaperone! The sister was discussing who they should bring along - and they were going on a date in a public place - a restaurant! I almost fell off my seat!

  • zenpunk
    zenpunk

    When I first started dating my parents were pretty liberal and didn't bother with the whole Chaperone thing. Well the elders had a chat with them about that and, the next thing I knew - Chaperones were absolutely necessary! What a drag. I felt really bad for the people drug along on these dates. I kept the affection to a minimum because of it. A few years later, my parents got liberal about it again and I felt such relief that I didn't have to beg and plead for a third person to come along.

  • LovesDubs
    LovesDubs

    Yep...age 32 going on a date with my now husband with his Downs sister who is like a human SPONGE :) She doesnt miss ANYTHING. I felt stupid the entire time...eventually I just decided that was DAMN stupid and defied them all.

  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    Like people can't POSSIBLY control their raging hormones at 48 years old. Oh No! Get out the fire extinguishers, people, it's another case of Hot Monkey Love! Pshhhyeah.

    CG

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