Your harsh criticism of the Watchtower is not helping matters. Instead of criticizing the problems, why not suggest solutions?
This is pointless, provocative and designed to ignite a firestorm of followup attacks...
"The Borg's disfellowship policies totally sux!!!!!"
"The GB's rules are bazantine and reminiscent of Christendom as it operated in the middle ages!"
This frames a tragic teaching in a constructive light, and promotes discussion on what policies are really necessary and genuinely scriptural...
"The Watchtower needs to reevaluate its disfellowship policies in light of these scriptures..."
"Socially shunning someone in the congregation should be left up to the consciences of each congregation member based on their knowledge of the shunned individual's situation. The severity of various situations will often determine the extent of shunning, and influence decisions by the elders regarding assigning responsibilities to anyone committing wrongdoing. Extreme situations involving criminal wrongdoing on the part of a congregation member may require the congregation to completely ban the member from all responsibilities and require the elders to vote on whether to ban disruptive individuals from attending meetings..."
If you really care about the future of those who want to remain Jehovah's Witnesses and work things out, then why not start brainstorming solutions?
Needless to say.
Derrick