...and, don't forget...under these "subtle" reminders to JW's as to the WTB&TS authority over their lives, is the iron fist in the velvet glove.
Shunning has varying degrees of impact on each individual, but my guess is that the vast majority of JW's simply cannot afford to risk the threat that their very lives can be hugely impacted, if not destroyed, by being cut off from family, spouses and friends. It is a trap. You will either quit struggling and go along or you WILL pay a price.
Those of us who paid the price of freedom can now post on JWN, etc.