I have 3 daughters who hate me and 2 grandchilden banned from seeing me. Having a sh*t day now.

by Amelia Ashton 32 Replies latest jw friends

  • Amelia Ashton
    Amelia Ashton

    My youngest who I haven't seen for 6 months came to collect the rest of her stuff from the flat today.

    She was cold and indifferent towards me until the dog went for her because she no longer knows her and then she blamed me for everything that has happened.

    Having trouble keeping it together now.

  • Think About It
    Think About It

    The evil Watchtower destroys families. Hang in there darlin'. Today might seem bad, but things will get better for you.

  • Amelia Ashton
    Amelia Ashton

    I was the only JW in my family. Can't blame the Watchtower I am afraid. This is all down to me

  • Tater-T
    Tater-T

    this song always lifts me up..

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bcQwIxRcaYs

  • tiki
    tiki

    i am so sorry amelia a.....the only relatives i have that are "in" wouldn't speak to me even when i was, so i don't know the pain personally...but it is heart-breaking.

    got to say too - everytime i see your atavar i think it is a fuzzy eyeball.....and then i have to regroup and realize its a baby hedgehog (if that is what they are??)

  • tiki
    tiki

    oops - just read that the wt is not the guilty party here - but all the same - your own kids.....whatever, hang in there....it is sad and frustrating for sure.

  • rip van winkle
    rip van winkle

    ((((Amelia)))), I'm so sorry that you are being mistreated by your family. It is NOT your fault. It is a CULT. They have been indoctrinated to portray this type of behavior in order to shame you into returning.

    Please Amelia do not despair. Just as you have awakened, your daughters may also awaken. Please hang in there!

    Edited to add- P.S. I sent you an email.

  • Ding
    Ding

    Very sorry, Amelia...

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    Amiela - Please please hold it together. Remember your daughters don't know any better. The only thing I can say is when you do see them, to continue to treat them with love and if they question you and they allow it, explain that you did research as is encouraged by the society.

    My heart bleeds for you. Stay strong, get people around you that you can talk too - feel free to email me at [email protected] I may be far but I always have time for anyone that leaves the organisation. I know it is very difficult especially when children are involved.

  • DesirousOfChange
    DesirousOfChange

    Kids step on your toes when they are little, but can stomp on your heart when they grow up.

    As they grow older (wiser?), they are likely to see things differently.

    Doc

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