unfortunately the dubbies do a great job of convincing the r&f that all religion is garbage. when one finds out the dubbies are garbage too, most leave thinking "that's it, all religion is a farce". my first response is "been there, done that" and second, there is life with or without religion, a spiritual life, that is! So go it alone for a few years. I suspect if you keep you mind open, remain skeptical and keep learning, you'll find happiness either within a religion or without. If you hold onto all your prejudices, you'll likely be a angry and unhappy unfulfilled person with or without religion.
If if is a source of disunity, you're better off without it! Certainly, I urge you to go beyond the bible before you decide what you are looking for.
there now, don't you feel better?
carm