People holding hands and praying over a meal hurts who?
When I was in prison (Seagoville) over the Jehovah demands Neutrality nonsense, the brothers started bowing heads and praying over their meals.
Piety ove Pie, I guess you could say--except, there was no pie.
It caught on. More and more JW's were doing it. Peer pressure perhaps?
Anyway, it really galled the other inmates. Yes. It made them actually ANGRY.
I think I know why. At least I know what one inmate said to me.
"God is private, dude, deal with it!"
Roughly translated, it means: because you are praying publicly before meals it reflects badly on the rest of us who aren't.
Putting others in a bad light could possibly be considered bad manners, no?