Thank you all for your replies.
I did mean to reply sooner, but the forum isnt very Smartphone friendly so I have to wait until I am at work. I wasnt just starting yet another gay topic, and then disappearing from the scene. I will continue to post on the times I am able to.
I liked the point about two brothers marrying in a State where it was legal. What could they be disfellowshipped for? It would be seen as homophobic, and the Watchtower would have a sticky situation to deal with if the two brothers decided to pursue legal action.
One thing that I never understood is the absolute hatred of gays I see in some Christians, based on a handful of Scriptures *(where the original meanings are dubious and open to interpretation) yet people forgetting, or not placing as much emhasis on other sins such as drinking, revilery, and adultery. It is all so very odd. I do hope one day we move to a point where homophobia is seen as serious as racism within religion. However, if that happens is anyones guess.