I refused a typical dub wedding! They always made me cringe...I got married in the kingdumb hell and the bro giving the talk gave us the whole ''the wife is submissive and the husband is the head'' crap! I wanted to write my own vows but i wasn't allowed, perhaps they thought i would say something rude! Lol. My sister was chief bridemaid and didn't go to meetings anymore and a problem that caused. I wouldn't back down and insisted that it was my wedding and i wanted my sister to be part of it. At the ceremony hardly any witnesses came and the hall was virtually empty. All because my sister was bridesmaid! They came for the free food and booze though! We had our reception at a nice hotel with a sit down meal and a party afterwards where the others guests came... Problem was we found out a week before the wedding that my FIL had cancelled the DJ and had deceided to do it himself! As you can imagine my wrath was immense! On the day when we walked in the ballroom all his equipment was missing! Someone had stolen it! My sisters then boyfriend came to the rescue with his equipment and the younsters had great fun on the night playing DJ. So it turned out ok. Oh and for our first dance we had ''Metallica's nothing else matters''....
Did anyone else have the bro giving your wedding talk ask you rather inappropriate questions on whether you have touched each other where you shouldn't have?? It was a printout given to the elders giving the wedding talks with all these questions on. Apparently it was to guilt the couple into confessing so a JC could be formed! How sick!
Peace