Believe me, I attempted to let the friendships wither a while ago, even in the most non-contact way possible (without giving away too many details), but they were actually hurt that I wouldn't consider them my friends anymore. This was done in the "but, we still love you/haven't given up on you" somewhat cult-like method.
I don't think they are going to fall away from me, as long as I keep the status quo, which means don't talk about anything religious and don't do anything that would have me labelled as "bad association." I know (from a discussion) that they would like to see me come back to meetings, but there isn't any pressure or emotional blackmail to do so. Although, and maybe I'm being paranoid, I have sneaking suspicion that the reason some of these friends are still friends is to maintain a window into my world, perhaps to gather information that would lead to a DF'ing.
@Wobble/BluesBrother : I have already moved on from the JW's and you're right - these aren't true friendships. I couldn't reveal who I really am or what I really think to them. I don't believe they are aware that my decision is that definitive, yet. I do enjoy the time we spend together, and it is good for my mental stability (everyone needs friends!), but is a friendship genuine/true when there are still conditions on it?
@OTWO/Desirous : I would like to start attending a variety of churches to continue on my quest, and am looking into taking something like the Alpha Course. Whether I could do this 'openly' remains to be seen.
@James_Woods : Interesting.. it sounds like he's in it for completely social reasons.. JW friends are certainly 'easy' to make, but certainly difficult to keep (if they still want you)..
