When my hubby died (a witness) they agreed to let his memorial be at the KH..I (dissasociated) and several other family members that are no longer JW's went.
BUT..when my JW MIL and FIL had a surprise anniversary party held in a public reception hall I was told I could not come because I may stumble someone..party was mixed JW's and non JW's..
Go figure...*sigh*
Snoozy