Hey Ptuck...welcome. :) You've been love bombed my friend. When a JW befriends a non JW there is ALWAYS an agenda, and that agenda is to recruit you and make you a JW. Im sorry that happened to you. Really sorry...because I know I am guilty of doing that to people when I was a JW and Im ashamed of that. So on behalf of all of us who have come to the realization that that behavior is unchristian and INHUMAN to do to someone...I apologize.
I do hope you DONT become a JW though. It is a very pretty sparkly stone that people are attracted to and think it is one thing only to find out that it is an entirely OTHER thing when they become trapped in it like a tar baby. Continue to seek your spiritual path elsewhere. People spend more time buying a car than they do checking out a religion. A used car salesman will ALWAYS tell you the best things, true or not, about his car to make the sale. Why not talk to the people who owned the car BEFORE and know exactly whats wrong with it and why they no longer want it? Thats who we are ...the EXJWS.
I might like to suggest to you Ptuck, that you turn this experience around. Write to this man using the love for him that YOU had that was genuine and tell him that you not only forgive him, but you understand his burden now and only wish him love and happiness and that you enjoyed your time with him. And leave the door open for him to seek you out again, should his path become clear to do so in the future.
It might just be that he is having doubt about the religion himself and is embarrassed at leading you on all this time. We just never know. But the high road will make you feel better knowing you did the right thing.
Welcome to the board :)
LD