by Cordelia 30 Replies latest jw friends
Cordelia,
I want you to practice saying the following, over and over until it becomes etched in your soul. Say it whenever one of your JW relatives tries to tell you how to live your life.
"Last time I checked, I am ___ years old, and as an adult, with a job and a home of my own, and being the mother of my child, I don't need your permission to _______________."
and
"Didn't your mother ever teach you that if you can't say something nice, don't say anything?"
If you want help neutralizing your father PM me.
Don't worry, it won't be a mafia style solution.
It's peaceful and effective.
Cheers,
The Oracle
you're right they control me coz i let them, its just so hard when they are so upset,
and also it is true if all your life you have obeyed people its hard to make our own decisions, i find that anyway.
but finally they do know where i stand and that i want nothing to do with the 'truth' and its awful coz the're so disappionted but i am 33 not 10 so its about time i behaved like it.
You can do it!
33? Wow, the only person I cared about disappointing at 33 were me and my children! Never let yourself down and try to never let your children down. Everyone else if your decisions disappoint them, screw them!
I'm with Rebel, you can do it!
nj
Damn Elders looking for apostates....and porn!
cordelia honey its me - i know its you cos i facebooked you and you told me the same thing - this is crap and its so wrong how dare they..
if you want to phone me again I am here - the only control your family have over you is the witness faith. - they know they cant control you with it - get your account private from public search and dont you dare deactivate - ive just checked your still in my friend list lovely
anyway hun you know where I am..
grr im still annoyed
thanks alot, everythings going wrong at the mo!
creativhoney whats your name on facebook? x
sorry love know who u r now
