If he stopped everything painful, humankind wouldn't learn a blasted thing.
No, I said this. She told me God is not an enabler. She compared this to AA and what they teach about addiction and the trouble addicts get into. If your husband passes out drunk in the yard in his underwear and you move him into the house or cover him up, what has he learned? If you call his boss and tell him your husband is ill when he is really passed out in the yard, what will he learn?
I am saying that if you get youself into messes, you can't always expect God to bail you out. You won't learn a blasted thing if you're saved everytime.