Elders doing something they could be DF'ed for wile judging someone on JC?

by karter 15 Replies latest jw experiences

  • logic
    logic

    I have seen many elders and misterial servants come and go. Many quit and many disfellowshipped. I am related to many of them that are no longer around. I always knew they were not saints and felt they had no buisness judging anyone, and that is what elders do, I don't know how anyone can call it anything else. I have never been impressed by any elder or ministerial servant. Most of them that I have ever known had enough trouble taking care of their own buisness without trying to take care of anyone else. I have told many of them just that.

    I have always been leary of people who are free with their advise. Especially from people who have the audacity to think their advice is worth anything. I find that most people who give advice have enough problems of their own without trying to take care of yours.

    I have no problem with people giving thier opion if someone ask for it . If I do want someones opinion I will ask them.

  • looloo
    looloo

    i had an affair with a pioneer , guilt got to me eventually and fear of armageddon so i went back to meetings and persuaded pioneer to do the same (he was disfellowshipped for our affair ) an elder that used to be the p o told him not to bother coming back again untill he was over me and that he could never be with me . pioneer stopped going , elder used to show a lot of interest in me , ithought in a fatherly way , eventually i stopped going to meetings but elder still visited me , eventually he revealed his fee.lings for me that went back to his chat with pioneer 3 years earlier , and during this time he counselled people for mixing with disfellowshipped children ,and other things . i felt a bit sorry for him really as i know he felt guilty ,and if he had suddenly stopped judging people (being an elder) they would have been suspicious , he did eventually step down from being an elder just before he told me about his feelings so he did have a conscience , the strange thing is when it came out about my affair with the pioneer 5 years earlier this elder told me that i would have been stoned to death had i lived 2000 years ago and was really mad with me (i was only a study )but married . i am now married to that pioner by the way .

  • JK666
    JK666

    dvw.

    Another Joe's Garage fan?

    JK

    p.s. The white zone is for loading and unloading only!

  • loosie
    loosie
    But why did Jehovah wait twenty years to make this known?

    He is a busy guy.

  • cognac
    cognac
    when I was re-instated Iwas still smoking....guess the hs didn't tell them that, eh??

    ROTFLOL!!!! HS doesn't tell the elders a lot of things... lol

  • aquamarine
    aquamarine

    I guess they pick and choose who they want to help. I find it disturbing these elders among others in the congregation get away with so many horrible things. Then they have the nerve to judge us, how dare they!!!

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