the answer is simple and everyone knows it if they just think about it:
all things ARE as they MUST be.
it is NOW
it is always NOW
and THIS NOW is the result of all nows prior, not one of which can be undone...so this NOW must be as you find it...no one can alter how it got here and how this arrangement of stuff got to be this way.
anyone that blames you for being exactly what you must be, because of your true nature and the nature of all other things being what they must be, is basically insane and rejecting reality by comparison to some ideal fantasy.
so freewill is a religious myth
a judgemental god is insane
and the world is in the mess its in because we are all ignorant and forever shall be such...not because of evil nor good nor any other magical forces...but just the true nature of reality moving according to it own nature which no one could have made as reality is eternal...even if you want to call it god, god did not make itself.