(I dare any rank and file to do the same thing without a "visit" from the BOE.)
Patently untrue. My sister (D-fd) moved in with me for a period of time, the elders said it was my call. Non-spiritual contact is up to each persons conscience. Remember that genius on here who taped his JC? The elders on that tape told his mom she would still need to have contact with her Son who was to be D-fd.