The brain-washing works! A letter from a dub friend.

by BLISSISIGNORANCE 38 Replies latest jw friends

  • BLISSISIGNORANCE
    BLISSISIGNORANCE

    This was sent to me when I stopped attending meetings after the "Sunday' show went to air in Australia regarding sexual abuse of children in the WT organisation, of which one of my children was victim of. The bold print is my added comment.

    So, how was the rest of your day yesterday? I'm imagining it was not
    good. I'm sorry you had to see that but of course satan will use
    everything in his power to destroy our faith in the organization and in
    turn Jehovah. (note how the organization comes before god?)

    I'm not going to discuss it with you because I've taped it
    and last night I went to XXXXXX (an elder)and talked to him at length about
    the organizations stand (not god's) on child abuse. He was adamant that they by no
    means try to cover it up although he does accept the fact that some elders
    have stuffed up big time and the victims shown on Sun. morning were
    certainly not lying about their experiences. He hadn't seen it and when I
    told him I'd taped it and brought it for him to see, he was pleased. I
    don't think many got to see it since it was right when the meeting
    started.
    The organization has sent a letter to all congregations addressing the
    issue of child abuse. it was read on the tues. nite right after the
    convention and the reason I chose (elder)XXXXX to talk to is because he's
    the (elder's position) XXXXX and I thought he had the letter since I wasn't there that
    tuesday night and I wanted to read the letter. He told me that it was
    going to be read again for the benefit of those who missed the meeting on
    tuesday before. He told us that we are going to be advised to write down
    the scriptures used on how and why we view child abuse also the
    explanations of those scriptures. He said, if I had any concerns after
    the letter was read to come straight to him and ask.
    I was horrified to see that show and I wished I hadn't but on the other
    hand, I think It was good that I did cause now i'm prepared for when
    people may bring it up in the field service....(not because she now knows what really goes on in the borg) my mother was horrified.
    she had no idea that it was such an issue in the organization and she's
    very interested in what the letter has to say, I think it's being read
    twice in all congregations so it gets heard by all - or at least most. Of
    course anyone who wants to read it can.
    I'm sorry you've been so affected by all this and I wish there is
    something I can do, but obviously there isn't. I can't seem to encourage
    you or comfort you. I'm not affected by it like some are and it is not an
    issue for me and I don't want to make it one.(bury the head in the sand) I don't want to dwell on
    how bad an issue it might be in the organization because while I believe
    it is a big issue, I have full faith in the brothers and in Jesus (the brothers before Jesus)that
    they will deal with it in the best way possible.
    I'm telling you this because I know you will want to talk about the show
    and I don't. (good friend and comfortor)You've got XXXXX for that and i'm glad. I'm sorry if this
    upsets you, but I have to maintain my faith at all costs and (even lying to herself) dwelling on
    these things and talking about how bad they are is not helping me although
    by no means do I have my head in the sand....and you know many do. We
    have completely different ideas on how it's being dealt with (yeh, because it wasn't her kid that got abused and her being D/F)and what the
    outcome may be in Jehovah's organization.
    I'm more than happy though to tell you what (elder)XXXX said and if you don't
    go to the meeting on tuesday night, I'll fill you in if you like.
    I'm afraid that this is going to destroy you alltogether, I can imagine
    after seeing something like what you saw on Sun. morning, you'd have
    trouble looking the organization in the face again...remember though, at
    least 2 of the brothers were apostate and while much of it may have been
    true there is no where else to go in this world. We are very close to the
    end and we can only expect life to become almost unbearable at some stage.(the borg is making life unbearable, not life itself) Did you see XXXX and XXXX on the show? They were in front of the
    "congregation" singing. They obviously think Jehovah's organization isn't
    the right one but they are going to get a huge shock when babylon the
    great falls and they realize they've made a terrible mistake.
    One God, One Faith, One Babtism. Don't let this destroy you and your
    family XXXX, satan is already laughing at you because you are struggling
    so much now, this is just another push to get rid of you altogether.You know I love you very much (the pedophile was laughing at us, not satan) and as I said, I wish I had the wisdom of
    XXXXX to help you through this. As a friend and a sister though
    let me just say please..do not give up.
    I'll talk to you soon.
    Love XXXXX xx

    The borg always comes first, regardless of what is true!

    I welcome your comments.

    Cheers, Bliss

  • sens
    sens

    (((Bliss)))

    I also taped the show, and gave it to one of the elders I was close 2 at the time...he was appauled and admitted they had stuffed up...He was the only elder out of 3 here that took any notice, I hope it made him think and I hope he and his wife wake up...and leave.

    I noticed the comment ''satan is laughing at you''...

    The elders said to me ''its satans lies twisted up by the media..."

    That is their cover all for everything.

    3 Sens 4

    alt

  • Wolfgirl
    Wolfgirl

    I got a similar comment (it's all lies from apostates) despite the person knowing what my father did to me.

  • nelly1
    nelly1

    huggsssss bliss and totally agrees with her.... hold your head up girl hold it high.. you are on the right track....and there is accountabilty.

    my daughter was abused by a brother too wat before this abuse stuff ever came out..I hear ya and i understand what you are talking about.

    dont we have such similar things happened to us? totally amazing and we met on this board for a reason sis :)

    huggss to sens and bliss

    (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((bliss and sens)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

  • nelly1
    nelly1

    huggsssss bliss and totally agrees with her.... hold your head up girl hold it high.. you are on the right track....and there is accountabilty.

    my daughter was abused by a brother too wat before this abuse stuff ever came out..I hear ya and i understand what you are talking about.

    dont we have such similar things happened to us? totally amazing and we met on this board for a reason sis :)

    huggss to sens and bliss

    (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((bliss and sens)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

  • nelly1
    nelly1

    huggsssss bliss and totally agrees with her.... hold your head up girl hold it high.. you are on the right track....and there is accountabilty.

    my daughter was abused by a brother too wat before this abuse stuff ever came out..I hear ya and i understand what you are talking about.

    dont we have such similar things happened to us? totally amazing and we met on this board for a reason sis :)

    huggss to sens and bliss

    (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((bliss and sens)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

  • run dont walk
    run dont walk
    The borg always comes first, regardless of what is true!

    so well said !!!

  • Perry
    Perry
    ...I know you will want to talk about the show
    and I don't. (good friend and comfortor)You've got XXXXX for that and i'm glad. I'm sorry if this
    upsets you, but I have to maintain my faith at all costs

    This is an excellent example of how convulated the thinking of JW's is. Let's see what it will cost this woman:

    honesty

    compassion

    righteous indignation

    a friend

    her conscience (if there still is one)

    Yes, she has kept her faith in a organization and not Christ. I guess she forgot about him. I wonder if she could picture him writing what she did ?

    Why didn't she just tell you to keep "warm and well fed" as she walked by on the opposite side of the road?

  • berylblue
    berylblue

    Bliss,

    It must have really hurt to read this letter. I am so sorry for all that you are continuing to suffer.

  • BLISSISIGNORANCE
    BLISSISIGNORANCE

    Beryl....................thanks for your words.

    But hey........................look at the friends I have now. People who understand and care!

    I suffer much less now that I'm out of that fake place, away from fake people. Now I have many friends, some new like Kelpie and some old..........like ozzie and mrs ozzie.

    I also have the freedom to deal with my family the way I know is best, not the way some men tell me.

    I'm happy now and thanks to all my friends on this forum.

    Cheers, Bliss

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