Especially and specifically blameworthy are those female relatives, such as an aunt or even a mother , who have used boys as sexual playthings, thereby starting them on a road that leads to their having aggressive feelings toward women.
This has happened to me as an preschooler, but I don't feel any aggressive feelings or resentment toward women. Quite the opposite. There's no excuse for men to sexually assault women. The guy's a pig.
Walter