What I am debating on now though is all the love letters, cards, and all the pictures of us together, do I send them to her? I know he is not telling her or the elders the whole truth. Should I send the proof or should I let this go?
You need to think about how doing this would make YOU feel. I don't think either way it would be right or wrong and to be honest I don't know what I would do. But for sure with the feelings you have for him, being in love and no being betrayed, thinking clearly is about impossible.
I'm sorry this happened to you.
Scully said:
I'd put each item of his (I hope you have some of his underwear with your lipstick stains on them ) in a clear Zip-loc bag
Yet another use for Zip Loc bags