Sorry to hear about that Blondie.
I met a brother who had been a good friend, at a district convention years ago who had moved away from our area - he was a lovely genuine guy.
He had finally been made an elder in his new hall.
I asked him why it had taken so long in our old hall?
He said he learnt that someone had been spreading a rumour to the elders in his original hall for years that he was writing 'worldly' science fiction stories so he didn't qualify.
The other elders never came to him to verify this - he told me he had written stories for an english exam back in the 1970's when he was still in school - who spread these stories I asked.
A distant relative in the hall who was the most bitter, twisted, gossipy old elder.
This was the same horrible guy I took delight in ignoring when I had successfully faded for a number of years.
This same false story spreading, bully elder looked like he was going to burst into tears when I blanked him, and yet he was the most vicious, gossiping elder bully I have ever known..