After a collapse or during one, people leave as exiles. There is freedom, but for a while people are emotional refugees. That is a bit different...Some of us might still be in that "refugee" situation, where we are affected by where we left. So when we hear news of what happens in the Watchtower world, it can affect us based on our particular situation and loss.
Great comment. Great analogy.
Longhairgal.....Do you really believe former JWs "feel" upset because of 'critical thinking'? Your words suggest the reason rests in the second half of your comment. (above not supposed to be in quotes)
"I was judged over this issue because I worked…"
Does the fact that JWs now are judged differently than you were still a source of irritation, despite your being 'long-out'?
I'm not insensitive to your experience, having been emotionally beat up myself, I'm suggesting you stop living like a 'refugee'.