If a change in the blood policy happens, who will be more upset, JWs or former JWs?
I suspect the latter.
When the beard thing went down, JW's seem to immediately embrace it, whereas many former JW's have been brooding about it.
Did it take away a pet gripe we had?
Do we feel jealous of JWs living now?
Does this change make you question if you made a mistake in leaving the church?
I personally try to parallel such things in a way similar to how people react to past loves or lost friends. Do you hear of good news in their lives, maybe they became a better person, lost weight or got recognition for an accomplishment, and become disturbed by it? Or might you be the person who genuinely feels 'good for them!' (freudenfreude)
Are we happy the people, still under the WT's influence, can exercise a small but greater measure of control over their life? In matters of greater importance, wouldn't we be delighted to hear that social and legal pressures resulted in life-and-death choices being returned to the people?
I wonder, in the end, if most of us would be better off not spending time following the WT's shifting policies/doctrines. Much like we don't 'stalk' or shadow past lovers or former friends online for our mental health's sake.