*** w88 4/15 27-8 Discipline That Can Yield Peaceable Fruit ***
Why is such a firm stand appropriate even today? Well, reflect on
the severe cutting off mandated in God's Law to Israel. In various serious
matters, willful violators were executed. (Leviticus 20:10; Numbers 15:30, 31)
When that happened, others, even relatives, could no longer speak with the dead
lawbreaker. (Leviticus 19:1-4; Deuteronomy 13:1-5; 17:1-7) Though loyal Israelites
back then were normal humans with emotions like ours, they knew that God is just
and loving and that his Law protected their moral and spiritual cleanness. So they
could accept that his arrangement to cut off wrongdoers was fundamentally a good
and right thing.-Job 34:10-12.
10 We can be just as sure that God's arrangement that Christians
refuse to fellowship with someone who has been expelled for
unrepentant sin is a wise protection for us. "Clear away the old leaven,
that you may be a new lump, according as you are free from ferment." (1 Corinthians 5:7) By also avoiding persons who have deliberately disassociated themselves, Christians are protected from possible critical, unappreciative, or even apostate views.-Hebrews 12:15, 16.
What About Relatives?
11 God certainly realizes that carrying out his righteous
laws about cutting off wrongdoers often involves and affects
relatives. As mentioned above, when an Israelite wrongdoer
was executed, no more family association was possible. In fact,
if a son was a drunkard and a glutton, his parents were to bring him
before the judges, and if he was unrepentant, the parents were to share
in the just executing of him, 'to clear away what is bad from the midst
of Israel.' (Deuteronomy 21:18-21 You can appreciate that this would not
have been easy for them. Imagine, too, how the wrongdoer's brothers, sisters,
or grandparents felt. Yet, their putting loyalty to their righteous God before
family affection could be lifesaving for them.
12 Recall the case of Korah, a leader in rebellion against God's
leadership through Moses. In his perfect justice, Jehovah saw that
Korah had to die. But all loyal ones were advised: "Turn aside, please, from before
the tents of these wicked men and do not touch anything that belongs to them, that
you may not be swept away in all their sin." Relatives who would not accept God's
warning died with the rebels. But some of Korah's relatives wisely chose to be loyal
to Jehovah, which saved their lives and led to future blessings.-Numbers 16:16-33; 26:9-11; 2 Chronicles 20:19.
13 Cutting off from the Christian congregation does not involve
immediate death, so family ties continue. Thus, a man who is
disfellowshipped or who disassociates himself may still live at home with
his Christian wife and faithful children.Respect for God's judgments and the
congregation's action will move the wife and children to recognize that by his course,
he altered the spiritual bond that existed between them. Yet, since his being
disfellowshipped does not end their blood ties or marriage relationship, normal
family affections and dealings can continue.
14 The situation is different if the disfellowshipped or
disassociated one is a relative living outside the immediate
family circle and home. It might be possible to have almost no
contact at all with the relative. Even if there were some family
matters requiring contact, this certainly would be kept to a minimum,
in line with the divine principle: "Quit mixing in company with anyone
called a brother that is a fornicator or a greedy person [or guilty of another
gross sin], . . . not even eating with such a man."-1 Corinthians 5:11.
15 Understandably, this may be difficult because of emotions and family ties,
such as grandparents' love for their grandchildren. Yet, this is a test of
loyalty to God, as stated by the sister quoted on page 26. Anyone who is feeling
the sadness and pain that the disfellowshipped relative has thus caused may find
comfort and be encouraged by the example set by some of Korah's relatives.-Psalm 84:10-12.