yet Abraham bowed to them
I don't think that Abraham viewed them in this manner
“My Lord and my God!” (John 20:28)
I think this scripture shows the difference
5 For to which of the angels did God ever say,
“You are my Son;
today I have become your Father”?
Or again,
“I will be his Father,
and he will be my Son”?
6 And again, when God brings his firstborn into the world, he says,
“Let all God’s angels worship him.”
(Heb. 1:5-6 NIV)
Surely worship has to do with what you do. How you view the god. I use money but it's not my god. I don't worship it. Some people owe me money and don't pay, so what. I trust in God. I respect money and would do what I can to retrieve what is owed but it doesnt worry me.
I view Christ as my Lord and as Peter said I do my utmost to be found finally by him spotless and unblemished a slave of him. This sounds like worship to me.
You may find interesting to read a book by the Jewish scholar Jacob Neusner A Rabbi talks to Jesus. I have the book but have not read it yet.