I`ve been described as empathetic, caring and helpful by a few people and so I do find people are drawn to me. But that`s not always a good thing. I find a lot of people who don`t want to put the effort in to helpful themselves are quick to run to me because it`s just easier to get me to do things for them. I have a lot of difficulty saying no and setting boundaries and I find I really have to be alert to the types of people I get involved with... otherwise I over extend myself and end up suffering.
As for on the board, I`ve sensed that some people get a little frustrated with me when they tell me what to do and I don`t act right away. And based on feedback, the odd person has suggested that what I have shared is just a sob story or that I feel sorry for myself or that I don`t care if I`ve hurt others. But all in all, most people seem to understand that we all have different experiences and circumstances and they seem okay with having me participate.