@Tuber:
I never said I want to stop my stepmother being a theist, I want to stop her being a Jehovah's Witness.
I see. How do you imagine that you will be able to accomplish this? By taking a crash course in theology a la ex-Jehovah's Witnesses? I've read some of the "advice" that others have been given you here and someone advised you to become an undercover Bible student so that you will learn in stealth at least some of the major teachings of the Bible, teachings that some here have suggested are in reality the major teachings of Jehovah's Witnesses that are not based on Bible at all.
I don't think your having an ulterior motive to accept a Bible study with Jehovah's Witnesses to be a bad idea at all. Under ordinary circumstances, I would be willing to study the Bible with you, but what no one told you, our publications aren't really designed with atheists in mind, and I'm pretty sure that many of those giving you advice would have mentioned this had they paid closer attention to the things that those that studied the Bible with them would have told them (or should have told them). The majority of the people to whom Jehovah's Witnesses preach in the world are familiar with the Bible, and by this I'm talking about theists that might fancy themselves as being Christians, Muslims or Jews.
Your stepmother seems a bit tied to our publications, so that she might quote from our publications extensively whenever she speaks to you, but I make adroit use of the Bible, from which I will only be paraphrasing in what I am saying to you in this response. From what you have written in this thread, your stepmother doesn't speak to you as I believe she ought to speak when she knows that you are an atheist. An atheist comes to the Bible having no belief in God, so it would be daunting for most Jehovah's Witnesses with little or no experience attempting to study the Bible with an atheist to do so since our literature is designed for the most part to appeal to those that either believe that God exists or is an agnostic that believes the existence of God to be a possibility. You are free to think I don't know a thing about atheists though, but I'll still be competent in what things I say to you.
Watchtower publications teach that all other religions, to the extent of all other [denominations] of Christianity even, are being used by Satan to lead people away from the "one true religion".
This is what the Bible teaches. I won't quote the Bible texts here since I'm not sure that you have the same appreciation that I do as to the infallibility of God's word and its truthfulness. The Bible teaches, for example, that God raised Jesus, a man that was put to death, from the dead on the third day after his execution. Because Christians believe what things the Bible teaches, they accept this teaching on faith in the Bible, which they believe to have been written under divine inspiration, but you couldn't be expected to believe that a dead man came back to life after having been dead for parts of three days rose from the dead.
Although the earth may have been existence for many thousands of years, perhaps aeons, the Bible provides a history of mankind that only dates back to a little over 6,000 years, and because Christians hold the Bible to be inerrant, they would have no difficulty rejecting the idea that man evolved from primates as a result of evolution (based on the Darwinian premise of natural selection) or rejecting as absurd the notion that man has been walking around on this planet for 10,000, 50,000 even 100,000 years or longer, believing as we do that the human race began as the result of the direct creation of Adam and Eve by God. If you should decide to accept a Bible study with one of Jehovah's Witnesses, this point will be made using the Bible and you will, of course, be free to reject what you read in the Bible as incredible.
Watchtower publications teach that "true christians" don't accept blood transfusions. I worry about what would happen if my step mother or one of my little sisters were to be put in a situation where a blood transfusion was necessary to save their life.
I've never seen such a statement in any of our publications. The reason Jehovah's Witnesses do not accept blood transfusions ought to be because of what the Bible teaches as to the sacredness of life, and how they learned from the Bible that blood represents life, which is why God put blood on animals on the altar in the first place to represent the life of the human being that provided such to atone for his or her sins, which animal sacrifices, mind you, foreshadowed the perfect human sacrifice of Jesus whose shed blood for the sins of mankind. Just as God had commanded Noah, one of the eight survivors of the global deluge about which the Bible teaches, to pour out blood so as not to eat unbled meat, the command to abstain from blood is incumbent on Christians to obey because, as I just stated, blood represents life and so is sacred.
However, this prohibition on blood transfusions doesn't extend to the use of blood fractions, since such are derived from the four major components of whole blood four (4) components of whole blood(i.e., plasma, white cells, red cells and platelets), and so the transfusion of same would not be the same as transfused blood, and thus not regarded by some Jehovah's Witnesses as being a violation of God's law, so it is a matter of conscience for the Christian to decide to accept the transfusion of such blood products as some Christians might find it to be repugnant to accept one or more blood fractions in connection with the medical treatment they might receive.
From blood plasma, for example, are produced various fractions, such as clotting factors VIII and IX, to treat hemophilia, albumin for massive bleeding and liver failure, and to treat burns; also Tig to treat tetanus and HRIg to treat rabies; as well as globulin to provide passive immunity after exposure to certain diseases. From platelets, are produced fractions like IPF (immature platelet fraction) and TPO (plasma thrombopoietin). My point here is that Jehovah's Witnesses have no problem accepting blood fractions.
Gasoline, for example, is a component of crude oil, but plastics that come from crude oil would be a fraction since it is a byproduct of crude oil. That plastic bottle of water from which many of us drink today would be a crude oil "fraction," which hardly resembles what it was before it was processed from it into plastic and no one would point to such a plastic bottle littering the highway as crude oil, would they?
Here's the point I want to make though: The risks associated with the use of blood in connection with the transfusion of blood and blood products far outweigh the benefits that one hopes to obtain. When asked whether there are any risks associated with a patient's receiving a blood transfusion, Aryeh Shander, M.D., Chief of Anesthesiology and Critical Care, Englewood Hospital and Medical Center in Englewood, New Jersey, responded: "Absolutely. If you can't demonstrate benefit, all you are offering the patient is risk."
So, then, my question to you, @Tuber, would be: How much risk would you be willing to accept for yourself? How much risk would you be willing to subject one of your own children that a doctor wants to give a blood transfusion? Is 50% risk too high for you? How about 25%? 10%? 5%? 1%. To most Jehovah's Witnesses, a 1% risk is too high for them to subject their children to the invasion of their immune system by a blood transfusion. I realize that you specifically had the lives of your two half-sisters in mind, but to how much risk do you think your stepmother ought to subject them?
Watchtower publications label those who disagree with their teachings as apostates, and state they must be disfellowshipped and shunned.
Yes and no; disfellowshipped, yes, but shunned, no. Many Jehovah's Witnesses will and do shun disfellowshipped persons, but not all of them do, for Christians are scripturally required to cut off spiritual association with the disfellowshipped individual, which means we would not associate spiritually with them while they are in a disfellowshipped state, and would avoid unnecessary social contact with the disfellowshipped person for as long as they remain in a disfellowshipped state, but if we should see someone not disfellowshipped for apostasy at meetings, we can greet them, talk to them, arrange to give them a ride to meetings at our Kingdom Halls, even have meals with them.
While the elders in a congregation do speak consolingly to disfellowshipped individuals all of the time, it's true that some Jehovah's Witnesses decide on their own to shun and have nothing to do with the person, which is his or her choice to do, and I'm sure it hurts the feelings of the disfellowshipped individual, but (1) shunning is not the policy of Jehovah's Witnesses, and (2) the feelings of those that do shun disfellowshipped persons may change should he or she be reinstated as a brother or as a sister. However, if one has been disfellowshipped for apostasy, Christians do not greet such apostates, talk to them, arrange to do anything at all with them, including having a meal with them.
Now you might think such treatment to be cruel, but Jehovah's Witnesses are more concerned with what God thinks about the individual that is being disciplined to not take lightly their obligation to live up to their vow of service, their dedication. Our hope is that they will repent of the wrongdoing that led to their being disfellowshipped and seek reinstatement soon, but we also realize that it does takes longer for some to return to their senses, if they return at all. While disfellowshipped, the individual is still our brother or sister, and should they be reinstated, they are not rebaptized since disfellowshipping doesn't sever the vow that they made to God at baptism to do his will.
You may not understand the need for Christians to live by the moral standards outlined in the Bible, including our abstinence from blood, but adherence to Bible standards is protecting us from many of the loathsome diseases that non-Jehovah's Witnesses are experiencing, like genital herpes, Herpes simplex, HIV/AIDS, human papilloma virus (HPV) and Kaposi's sarcoma-associated herpes virus (HHV-8), things that are rarely contracted by Jehovah's Witnesses, young and old alike, and usually only plagues married Witnesses when one of them "cheats" on his or her spouse than it does those who are unmarried (although it is unfortunate that some of our children that have disobeyed God and their parents have quality of life issues as a result of such disobedience).
Watchtower publications quote scientists and other sources out of context, making it seem like they support watchtower teachings when they do not- this is nothing short of deception.
Please cite an example. I don't care to hear unfounded allegations that you read somewhere, maybe here on JWN or in that book you mentioned you were in the process of reading. What scientist did Jehovah's Witnesses quote in any of our publications, who was taken out of context to make it appear as if they either supported the teachings of Jehovah's Witnesses or supported some point being made in one of our publications. Your statement sounds like one of those boilerplate allegations that apostates make against Jehovah's Witnesses, but if you prefer to believe this allegation to be true, then don't bother citing an example. I'm only interested in hearing what you can prove and I'm certain that you won't be able to do so.
The WTS has foretold the end of the world numerous times, each time this has proven false. So they are the very definition of the false prophets the bible tells of... the bible they supplant with their own teachings.
So you, an atheist, are now thinking that you are qualified to tell me what things the Bible teaches about false prophets? Really??? I didn't self-identify here as an atheist; that would be you, for I'm one of Jehovah's Witnesses and I don't mind telling you that I'm qualified to teach others what things the Bible teaches more convincingly using just the Bible than can many Jehovah's Witnesses that must rely upon our publications to assist them. Is it me that needs a Bible study or would that be you?
When did Jehovah's Witnesses ever predict the end of the world? If you are able to provide a citation that points to the prediction of a specific date when the end of the world was to come, something that would constitute proof, I'd be interested in seeing it. Again, this is just another one of those boilerplate allegations that apostates make against Jehovah's Witnesses, but, again, if you prefer to believe this allegation to be true, then don't bother citing an example, for I'm only interested in hearing what you can prove and I'm certain that you won't be able to do so.
@djeggnog wrote:
Personally, I believe in people being permitted to make their own choices, and what some might view as indoctrination someone else might view as intense vigorous training, especially if we are talking about adults and I assume that your stepmother is an adult and you do not begrudge her right to make our own choices in life no more than you would appreciate someone else trying to dictate the choices you make for your life. As an atheist, I would think reading anything that relates to religion would be rather difficult to comprehend, but you cannot learn about the religion to whom your stepmother belongs by reading the viewpoints of folks like Raymond Franz, the author of Crisis of Conscience or Don Cameron, the author of Captives of a Concept (Anatomy of an Illusion), since these men are opposers of Jehovah's Witnesses and cannot be trusted to provide an unbiased explanation to you of the beliefs of Jehovah's Witnesses as someone like myself who is actively one of Jehovah's Witnesses. I invite you to put your questions and concerns to me.
@Tuber wrote:
You say these men are biased against the Jehovah's Witnesses, but from everything I see, they have good reason to be. And I think it is fair to say they are no more biased against the WTS than the JWs are for the WTS. The JWs and WTS change their stance on doctrine, then try to cover up the changes... at this point in the discussion, the JWs/ WTS do not come across to me as particularly trustworthy.
Ok.
Also, please don't say things like "as an [atheist] I would think reading anything that relates to religion would be rather difficult to comprehend".
You may not have meant to come across this way, and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, but it makes you sound... well, since I am trying to be civil, let's say it makes you sound rather rude.
Listen carefully: I do not apologize for the statement I made that you found to be decidedly rude; it was not my intent to be rude to you and I don't care to be rude to anyone. However, I do apologize to you for what I can see, now that you've brought to matter to my attention, as a bit condescending, though it was not my intention to be condescending (or, as I just said, rude). You said a few things in this last post that weren't kind, and were arguably rude, but you're going to have to grow a thicker skin, ok? I'm not deliberately trying to be rude to you, but if I should say something that makes you cry, you are going to have to man up.
Believe it or not, @Tuber, I am being civil toward you, but I'm civil toward everyone. If you thought you could join a thread here on JWN and dictate what and how I say here, or dictate what anyone else says on here, you should give serious consideration to logging out immediately and never coming back, for <whisper> some here use profanity and will clown you and won't care to nurse your feelings with a little tenderness </whisper>. There are no children on JWN.
@djeggnog