Posts by The_Doctor10

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Single Sisters

by BashfulAshG in

am i the only one who has single, desperate sisters in the congregation?

they tend to be holier-than-thou, frumpty, but in private talk about getting married.

but they don't understand why no brother will look at them.

Desperation is in every KH. I mean marriage is one of the only activities condoned in being a JW, so it's a pretty big deal to those man-seeking frumpaluffaguses. Timeline of being a JW: be indoctrinated at an early age, miss out on tons of fun other kids get to have, get baptized dedicating yourself to a lifetime of being a non-thinking repeater of ancient writ, get married to a frumptastic fellow non-thinker, have and indoctrinate your own brood, and then die "in the truth," holding out hope that in the next life you'll get to do some things you actually want to do.

As a side note, talking about the goofy dress standards. I remember going to this past year's Annual Meeting and the stupid rhetoric about how the sisters shouldn't be wearing "Spanx," he really meant Yoga/tight workout pants, which brings up the issue of the GB just being so far out of touch. I mean, if you're going to denounce something, at least get the name of the thing you're denouncing right! Also too, this is more of that "rape-culture," vibe, basically blaming sisters for causing brothers' inappropriate thoughts.

Then the whole brothers in skinny pants, or bright dress clothing, "calling attention to themselves." Just step in line, be modest and boring. I've always found the unwritten "no beard," rule weird too, I mean we see nothing but beards in the publications but any brother having a beard is a no-no.

It's all too tedious and overbearing, it's ridiculous.

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What if JWs Viewed Disfellowshipping and Excommunication as Radical Islamists Do?

by Oubliette in

i found this statement from a recent article about isis to be quite interesting in view of the way that any jw can be accused of apostasy with little or no possible repercussions or consequences for the accuser: .

in islam, the practice of takfir, or excommunication, is theologically perilous.

if a man says to his brother, you are an infidel, the prophet said, then one of them is right.

The_Doctor10

I wouldn't be surprised if you surveyed JWs on the subject of, "Would you support stoning an apostate/those who leave the faith?" You'd probably see Islam-esque numbers in support of the practice.

JWs are every bit as fervent about their faith as those of Islamic faith, the only difference of note is that at the moment JWs look for J-Hov to do the dirty work instead of handling it themselves.

I'm pretty sure though, if the GB passed down a doctrine bringing back stoning, there'd be many JWs packing their briefcases full of Old Testament "justice." Especially the little old sisters, they'd be first in line for a good ol' fashioned stone throwin'.

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Why would Jehovah and Jesus talk to Satan?

by hardtobeme in

if satan is the greatest apostate there is, why he was allowed to be in heaven?

job chapters 1 and 2 says that jehovah talked to him.

wasn't jehovah supposed to shun his son and set an example to all parents?.

The_Doctor10

The story of Job always bugged me. Being raised a JW it was always impressed on me the importance of Job's faith, but I always only saw Jehovah as failing his servant, allowing Satan of all demons be the one to "test," Job.

If Satan is such an adversary why would Jehovah make any kind of deal with him?!

The Bible is full of these kinds of suspensions in logic.

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For once and for all

by Pistoff in

for the latest apologists for the gb and the lawyers that rank and file are paying for:.

the wt has not changed their policy.. they still have a 2 witness policy about child sexual abuse, and think it's a good idea.. they will still appoint someone who has sexually abused a child, if they want to.. they say that they won't allow an abuser to go door to door without supervision, but this means nothing, as they protect the identity of abusers; they refuse to tell all elders and ms's who they are, witness mr. kendricks.. nothing has changed..

The_Doctor10

The practices of the JWs are appalling once you're on the outside looking in.

Add in the other end of the two witness policy, no such policy needed to indict those accused of sexual immorality with a member of the opposite sex. An elder catches wind from just one person that you've dibble dabbled in someone's honeypot and you're in front of a judicial committee faster than you can do your best Bill Clinton, "I did not have sexual relations with that wom..." ... "You're disfellowshipped!"

Abuse your spouse, better have two witnesses, diddle a kid, two witnesses, take up smoking, two witnesses, on and on...

Its absurd.

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Manicheism of the WTBTS

by coalize in

i think one of the more evil trick of the wtbts is their manicheism!.

on a large bunch of subjects, they wants the fellow followers to believe that in a given situation, it is only possible to take two choice, of course, diametrically opposite.

and of course, you have the good choice and the bad choice.. of course, nothing is more wrong than that!

The_Doctor10

Yup, got fed up with the, "do it this way or you're wrong," mentality it took to be a JW. The "God is always right," bs, like, really? Have you read Exodus, Leviticus, and Deuteronomy recently? Some of the most atrocious "moral," guidance one could ever imagine, all commanded by our supposed, "loving," creator.

It takes blind belief to continue as a JW, honestly, I don't even understand why they tell people to read their bible daily, JWs have to believe the way they're told or they're out, just show up, do as you're told, and continue to do so and you'll get everlasting life in paradise!

Its so strange how you can be in a cult but not realize it until you're on the outside looking back in.

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On the Relevancy of The Institutionalization of Sin

by Perry in

child murder, sodomy & corrupting the human genome are not new sins, they are old ones.

what is new is their institutionalization.

but even that isn't totally new.

The_Doctor10

I never understood how someone would leave the WTS for any other religion. I just dropped my faith like a hot potato after 25 years of indoctrination in JW hullabaloo.

So much easier living without having all of the judgemental thoughts running through my head due to what I was taught by the GB. I just treat people on a person to person basis, if whatever is happening is taking place between consenting adults, then it's on the up-and-up as far as I'm concerned.

After losing my faith, I found it silly that I ever was concerned with what a supposed omniscient, omnipresent, all-powerful, all-wise creator who had the entirety of the universe to attend to, that somehow one of his main concerns was what consenting adults do while naked. Downright comical looking back on it all now.

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Is this a big reason that JW's are so attractive to some out there?

by dubstepped in

in another thread i saw it mentioned that this elder and his wife were trying to preach to the poster here and said that they liked that jw's had answers to their questions.

i've heard that over and over throughout the years, and it does make sense on a level.

people in other religions sometimes have questions and are told that this or that is a mystery, or that they just have to have faith, etc.

The_Doctor10

Being a JW is a lot like living a religious version of Family Feud, "7 Members of the Governing Body were surveyed, top answer is in the book, we asked, 'Is homosexuality a sin?' Bible says!"

There's no burden for rationale in being a JW, it's just a do as you're told religion and a lot of people don't mind that or are drawn to it. Doesn't matter if the answers don't make a whole lot of sense, at least they don't have to think about whatever it is anymore, they have their answer in their many, many books.

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Try Other Religions

by Sofia Lose in

sometimes i get a strong curiosity to start dabbling into other religions, other faiths, you know?

really different ones such as islam, judaism, hinduism, etc.. has anyone here looked into something else?

has your spirituality been satisfied by any other than christianity?.

The_Doctor10

Not interested in anything that has the same lack of evidence Christianity has. Wasted 25 years of my life being raised as a JW, not throwing away anymore of my life on another religion.

I'm a fan of having trancendent experiences, no need to insert the supernatural into it.

Finding awe in the world we live in is its own kind of "spirituality," (as a side note, we really need a better word for these experiences, 'spirituality' is too often misconstrued/used in conjunction with religious experience.)

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Waiting For The "Real Life"...

by JW_Rogue in

how many times did we have to hear this?

just another way to make you feel guilty for wanting to spend time improving yourself or enjoying life outside the organization.

to think of all the people that died waiting for the "real life" that is not coming is actually very sad and depressing.

The_Doctor10

Just, "woke up," from the cognitive coma within the last two years. The first 25 years of my life wasted, passing by opportunity after opportunity because, "Why worry about that now?! I can do that in the New System!"

The indoctrination from infancy is just a horrible thing to inflict upon humanity. Totally agree with Lawerence Krauss that it's a degree of child abuse to indoctrinate a child with fears of God, essentially handicapping their learning capabilities and limiting their experience of life.

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JW.org wants to be the only one to use their HEAD on you ;-)

by jw07 in

jw teens, don't get caught giving or receiving gifts of the cranial persuasion.. http://www.jw.org/en/bible-teachings/family/teenagers/.

The_Doctor10

Got so tired of all the taboos as a JW, bunch of sexually repressed bible thumpers telling everyone what to do with their own bodies.

One of the last straws for me was when the WTS even set taboos within marriage for cranial canoodling and backdoor entries.

Got fed up with the notion of a supposed omniscient, omnipresent, all-powerful, all-wise, creator who has the whole of the universe to attend to, and yet one of his main concerns is somehow what us mere specks of dust do while naked.