Posts by YoursChelbie

people who are not jdubs can also lead double lives as anyone reading the evening news can attest to: shocking deception even criminal acts done by someone who appeared to be a trusted member of the community.

how do you deal with these potential deceivers in your own life?

YoursChelbie

When I was a Jdub, there were many talks given to guard against those in the "congregation" who may be leading a double life.

People who are not JDubs can also lead double lives as anyone reading the Evening News can attest to: Shocking deception even criminal acts done by someone who appeared to be a trusted member of the community.

How do you deal with these potential deceivers in your own life?

Without having to outright conduct an intensive background check on every new person you meet, how do you know if someone is genuine when they begin a friendship with you? How do you know their words are sincere?

Do we all have to learn who is trustworthy by trial and error?

YC

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No outlet for unattractive men in this society...

by Gregor in

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they work hard and take care of their mothers.

they are loving uncles and kind hearted.

but they are 5'3', 290 lbs., bald at 35 and their personal interests are grounded in 3 stooges movies and star trek reruns.

YoursChelbie

Terry said:

To me this [sex in exchange for money] is like walking up to a stranger (in need of money) and proposing to sneeze on them for cash.
I've been celibate for a year and a half now. It is far preferable to remain human than to use other people as a handkerchief.
We empty ourselves when we view other people as the means to the end of our appetites. Self is fragile. If we are hungry and steal bread it doesn't solve the real problem.
Loneliness isn't solved by a turgid pecker or credit card receipt for services rendered. It begins with a commitment to be human to others for the sake of our self.

Admirable track record, Terry. Although, I've heard some people don't think staying celibate for extended periods is possible...

According to some psychologists, when someone can control their emotions it means they have a high EQ (Emotional Intelligence)

http://psychology.about.com/od/personalitydevelopment/a/emotionalintell.htm

YC

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Today is Danny Haszard's birthday!

by Dogpatch in

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give the man a heads up, although he would never make this known himself, but.... he's a jolly good fellow... :-)).

thanks for all you do danny, and have a happy next year!.

randy.

YoursChelbie

Happy Birthday, Danny!

alt

YC

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The Whole JW Judicial System Is Flawed!

by minimus in

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i'll tell you why i think so.. your opinions on this subject are welcomed.. nothing in the bible shows a set-up like the one the christian congregation of jehovah's witnesses uses.

where in the bible is a "judicial committee" ever mentioned??

or "chairman of the committee"?

YoursChelbie

Gary Buss you hit the nail on the head:

Why's a religion need a judicial system? They don't. Jehovah's Witnesses aren't a religion. They're a political party called "Zion"

I'll have to remember that one. LOL!

YC

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Questions about Dating a Former Jehovah's Witness

by The wanderer in

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weighing the decisions

having spent a number of years in the organization and the opportunity to.

marry in the "truth" there was this reluctance to do so.

YoursChelbie

Wonderer, I don't really know what specific type of "damage" you mean.

YC

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Link to UN Website RE WTBS being an NGO

by Cold Creek Swimmer in

i read yesterday that the un website has removed the info about the wtbs being an ngo.

here is the link that is still active.

i just looked it up myself.. http://www.un.org/dpi/ngosection/ngo-docs.asp.

YoursChelbie

It's amazing to me the sheer number of requests the UN has received about the Watchtower membership prompted them to address the WT$ membership on their homepage.

YC

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Scully Thanks A million

by mouthy in

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oh your flowers were so lovely!!!!!

i posted a very long thread on here but the line was off -so my post disappeared... whew!.

the birthday bash was so wonderful.

YoursChelbie

Happy Birthday Mouthy, would loved to have been part of the festivities!

YoursChelbie

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Criminal charges...gag order

by loosie in

ok, just throwing this idea out here folks.. isn't covering up a pedophile's actions considered being an accessory to the crime or haboring a fugituve?.

now are there criminal charges that can be bought against the wt society for doing what they did?.

i mean teachers are required by law to report suspected child abuse should church leaders be required as well?.

YoursChelbie

The laws for mandated report of child abuse by clergy vary from state to state and are subject to change. This document shows as of 2005 which states mandate reporting by clergy and under what circumstances:

http://www.childwelfare.gov/systemwide/laws_policies/statutes/clergymandatedall.pdf

YC

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Leolaia's Scenic Travel Photos

by Leolaia in

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well, i thought i'd start a fluff thread for once, so i'm posting here some of my favorite photos from my many trips over the years.

i hope you enjoy them and they inspire you to take awesome pictures on your own travels (or even your own backyard).

[edited to add...let's hope this formatting helps...jgnat].

YoursChelbie

Leo,

Nice pics of Tom! Very nice work there. Since I don't travel much, here's a question for you:

What would you consider to be the most romantic city in the world?

I'm thinking Rome is considered to be very romantic. If you have pics of Rome I'd really like to see those.

Thanks!

YC