Oh, and one more rant.
Remember that example of the son who got a full ride scholarship and how they 'wrestled' with the decision whether or not to send him?
The son was being 'stumbled' and pleaded with the parents to quit college and return home but the PARENTS told him NO and told him to stay.
The son wound up falling out of the 'truth' and his siblings don't go to the meetings anymore and the parents end up divorcing.
Yet somehow, that was all due to the son taking that full ride scholarship to college.