Topics Started by Jang
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Brother Thomas' Postiong from H2O
by Jang inbrother thomas cannot register here because he uses the anonymizer.
i have offered to post this here for him.
http://www.aimoo.com/forum/postview.cfm?id=311102&categoryid=2972&threadid=20521.
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Am I Codependent ? Now I'm a Bully?
by Jang ina couple of people have claimed i am co-dependent ..... a few years back i had to go through this list and do the following: .
codependents frequently:.
codependents frequently:.
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Co-Dependency or Kindness?
by Jang ina couple have expressed concern that compassion could really be co-dependency.
others have even accused me of being co-dependent because i help others.
this article explains the difference between co-dependencey and kindness (compassion).. .
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I'm not sure... Ode to Uncertainity
by Jang inwhen i first saw this is reminded me of how most of us feel when we first leave ... and especially when we come to boards like this.. .
my hands they are a-trembling.
and i do feel awful queer.
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Open Debate is Great!!!!!!!!
by Jang inone thing i am appreciating is that so many feel able to openly discuss issues on these boards.
here we have people openly challenging which is something we cannot do in tbe organziation.
i just got of the phone to someone who has lost everything because he openly challenged the elders who were backing a brother who had ripped him off for $140.000!!!!!
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THE CURSE OF EXPECTING PERFECTIONISM
by Jang inthe curse of expecting perfectionism.
we feel annoyed or angry when people don't meet the expectations we put on them.
and even when our expectations are met we don't always feel very good about it.
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Special Hug for Tally
by Jang intally, i really felt for you!!.
my husband and i both know what it is like to be falsely accused and what it does to you physically and emotionally.
and you are so right, that even if you are exonerated by the law, the mud sticks.. the last few days i have been supporting a man who has been falsely accused of sexual abuse.
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X's in Germany
by Jang inlara was tossed out by her father at 14 (here in oz) because she refused to become a jw.
she is now married with 3 children and living with her family in germany.
lara would like to communicate with other x's in germany.
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Recovery Issues and What to Expect
by Jang inrecovery issues and what to expect.
if you've had exit-counseling you have had a concentrated time to discuss and reflect upon your involvement in a psychologically abusive group, your personal issues that affected your vulnerabilities and your spiritual issues.
but you also need to realize that, for some, it has been somewhat like chipping off at an iceberg.
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Do You Judge?
by Jang inone of the things we were taught well as jw's was how to be judgemental.
do you judge?.
by jan tincher.