Oh BTW...I did ask an elder at the meeting what i needed as "evidence"
He gave me a one word answer.......FORNICATION and then walked away.
Duh....i kinda knew that one. That wasnt my question.
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monitorman
Oops....using the bad browser again.....
Sorry…haven’t been here for a few days. Thanks all for the comments (including the funny ones)
But I'm still confused. I still don’t know what is needed to label you “scripturally free” to remarry.
And BTW who made up this silly “all night” rule? You mean to tell me that if my wifes boyfriend visits her apartment all day and then leaves at 3 am (which I assume is not “all night”…. That somehow doesn’t constitute “evidence”?
And am I supposed to camp out all night in front of her door to collect this evidence? Isn’t that considered stalking and a crime on my part for which I could be charged and put in jail.?
And doesn’t this give a vindictive ex spouse the easy tools to torture her ex by NOT supplying him with the needed “evidence” so that he has to remain unmarried and not be able to get on with his life?
And even then…..why do I have to ask the necessary question of her? “Uh, honey……can I ask you a question? Have you had hot steamy sex with anyone lately?” “Can you sign this affidavit, please”
What a load of crap.
So here’s my question…..can I just say that she admitted to an affair? What would happen? Will that suffice? Or will I still have to supply “evidence”?
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