The shadows? What shadows are you speaking of? Many posters here do not reveal who they are. Do you have a problem with that?
What editors do yo know from several papers? I think they don't know you well at all.
The relevance of your family life in this matter is just that, relevant. It's like a fat girl telling others to watch what they eat.
Sorry for all the questions AK, seems like you have all the answers. Maybe I should find Zen, where is he?