we are a non-jw family with 2 kids under 5 thinking about hiring a jw live in nanny. she is in her 30's, active jw. we all have talked about mutual respect for each others religions, and all agreed to a hands off policy. but our concerns are still there--neighbors, friends, other acquaintances--will they be "targets"??? and will she be able to "control" herself with our kids and us? and will she be resentful or worse if we "reel her in" and draw a no-touch policy.
please help/advise!!! are we crazy?