Thankyou all for your replys
Yes, we talked about children, we both want children. As far as Christmas goes, I asked if our kids could spend time with Grandma and Grandpa at that time of year and he said yes. although he does want to teach them his beliefs., including his beliefs about Christmas.
Not sure if he plans on being an elder in his group, but i know he goes to 3 of those meetings a week, independently, and without me.
Apparently, he is the only JW in his family.
The blood transfusion thing, he already said that on his medical, I would be have to deny him getting a blood transfusion, whatever, personal reasons, don't understand why, but you can bet i would not let my kids die if I could prevent it, so no, to answer that question, I would not be ok with my children not being allowed medical attention in that matter.
He seems more understanding than most I have met, and seems not to expect me to ever become one.
I don't understand all the possible conflicts of interest we could encounter as a JW and non JW couple. Other than devoting a whole lot of time to understanding their beliefs, is their an easier way to find this info out?
Thank you again, before I get to far into this, I want to know what I am in.