thanks for your comments and i'm sorry for the pain you went through like me, all in the name of jehovah.
chezza
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guilt of having to give evidence against family
by chezza inhi all, just wondering if anyone else like me had to give evidence in judical cases involving their family members and how they got over the guilt when they realised what they had done?
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Shunning Family Members
by chezza injust wondering if anyone has a similar experience like me, i had to shun certain family members because of their being disfellowshipped and we all know how hard it was, even though we thought we had gods blessing, when i myself was disfellowshipped for confessing my wrongdoing to the elders i felt like i was all alone with no-one to turn to, and interestingly the very family members i had shunned were the first to offer me help, i didnt approach them when i was d/f coz i felt guilty after shunning them but they got in contact with me and helped me through a really dificult emotional time, and the intersting thing here is that gods people are supposed to be forgiving as he is and yet they wouldnt forgive me but my family who were "no longer believers" did, anyone else have a similar story?
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chezza
thanks kep, i believe i know some of your family :)
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tubal ligations
by crittersitter inhello all...been lurking between puppy grooms...just had to post this one!.
my daughter and x-hubby (inactive jw for many years) went to dinner the other night at grannies( hard nosed jw) and was told that the wtbs says that jw's can no longer have tubal ligations.
the reasoning was it interferes with the "natural order" of things.
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chezza
Next thing the wtbts will be saying is you can only have sex for procreation
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guilt of having to give evidence against family
by chezza inhi all, just wondering if anyone else like me had to give evidence in judical cases involving their family members and how they got over the guilt when they realised what they had done?
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chezza
thx for your comment jst2laws, youre right my family member is better off.
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Wow I'm getting married
by lauralisa inhe asked me on friday night.
wow.
he's the man of my dreams, and i'm so happy i was able to meet him.
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chezza
I'm so happy for you, i'm waiting for my new man to propose to me too and your right it wouldnt have happened in the borg.
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tubal ligations
by crittersitter inhello all...been lurking between puppy grooms...just had to post this one!.
my daughter and x-hubby (inactive jw for many years) went to dinner the other night at grannies( hard nosed jw) and was told that the wtbs says that jw's can no longer have tubal ligations.
the reasoning was it interferes with the "natural order" of things.
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chezza
hi, i had my tubes done in 1992 and at that time my husband (ex now) was a ministerial servant and the elders told us that if he got a vasectomy done he could lose his privliges, so i had my tubes done instead, i did get a few comments from some sisters but i felt then and i do now that it is no different from taking the pill its jsut more permament.
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Shunning Family Members
by chezza injust wondering if anyone has a similar experience like me, i had to shun certain family members because of their being disfellowshipped and we all know how hard it was, even though we thought we had gods blessing, when i myself was disfellowshipped for confessing my wrongdoing to the elders i felt like i was all alone with no-one to turn to, and interestingly the very family members i had shunned were the first to offer me help, i didnt approach them when i was d/f coz i felt guilty after shunning them but they got in contact with me and helped me through a really dificult emotional time, and the intersting thing here is that gods people are supposed to be forgiving as he is and yet they wouldnt forgive me but my family who were "no longer believers" did, anyone else have a similar story?
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chezza
Just wondering if anyone has a similar experience like me, i had to shun certain family members because of their being disfellowshipped and we all know how hard it was, even though we thought we had gods blessing, when i myself was disfellowshipped for confessing my wrongdoing to the elders i felt like i was all alone with no-one to turn to, and interestingly the very family members i had shunned were the first to offer me help, i didnt approach them when i was d/f coz i felt guilty after shunning them but they got in contact with me and helped me through a really dificult emotional time, and the intersting thing here is that gods people are supposed to be forgiving as he is and yet they wouldnt forgive me but my family who were "no longer believers" did, anyone else have a similar story?
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guilt of having to give evidence against family
by chezza inhi all, just wondering if anyone else like me had to give evidence in judical cases involving their family members and how they got over the guilt when they realised what they had done?
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chezza
thank you kep for your comments :)
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guilt of having to give evidence against family
by chezza inhi all, just wondering if anyone else like me had to give evidence in judical cases involving their family members and how they got over the guilt when they realised what they had done?
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chezza
i remember all too well because my ex was a elder we were called to give evidence against my sister who was living in sin as the saying goes, btw she was also inactive but they didnt care, to cut a long story short she was disfellowshipped just days before her wedding and i was told by the elders that i couldnt go, nice one, and boy did i feel like crap.
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guilt of having to give evidence against family
by chezza inhi all, just wondering if anyone else like me had to give evidence in judical cases involving their family members and how they got over the guilt when they realised what they had done?
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chezza
Hi all, just wondering if anyone else like me had to give evidence in judical cases involving their family members and how they got over the guilt when they realised what they had done?