I see this type of scenario daily, from other people. "Worldy" people realize that this is the here and now, and that we should help each other out through acts of kindness... yet on the other hand, I cannot count on one hand how many times JW's helped out the less fortunate - even their own. I remember one brother (elder) who is a millionare (from daddy) and spends all his free time rebuilding exotic and antique vehicles. One sister lost her husband to cancer and she was dirt poor. They were taking donations for a USED refrigerator and when they asked this brother to contribute he refused saying that if she had enough money to feed her dog, then she could afford a refrigerator. I saw examples of this time after time and it made me sick...
In fact when I had a life and death experience in my life several years ago and was evaced out to a different city for medical attention, the ONLY ones who came to my bed side were friends and co workers who drove over 250 miles to see me and offer assistance. NOT ONE JW from my cong showed up... tells you who your REAL friends are...