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  In search of my birth mother - can you help???

  by Billygoat in

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  this might be a piece of history some of you don't know about me.

  i know a couple of you do.

  so i'm hoping maybe y'all might have some suggestions in how i move forward.. my mother and father divorced when i was about 4. we lived in japan and my father was granted custody.

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  Andi,

  Check out this link. Middle of the page. Good Luck!

  http://www.msnbc.com/news/DATELINE_Front.asp

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  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  A prayer that never made it

  by Dogpatch in

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  i was cleaning out some drawers and found this little note from the bethel family for me to say the morning prayer on jul 24th.

  i left before i got to it.

  :-)).

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  Had you not left, what would you have prayed for?

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  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  My story: pieces of me

  by Mimilly in

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  i've lurked here for some time now, and posted a few times but wasn't going to do this until a couple other sweet members here suggested i do - so here it goes.

  to tell my story, i have to go back to the beginning.. when i was 3yrs old, i had a very loving older brother, craig, who was 5yrs old.

  while we were out playing on a montreal street one day, a streetcleaner with a hungover driver hooked my brother, dragged him several feet, and ran over him, in front of me.

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  BobsGirl

  You, my friend, are a woman or wisdom, spirit, and strength! I am grateful that you have shared your story and honored to associate with you on the board. Raising a glass of my favorite beverage ..... "Here's to the future"!

  BobsGirl

  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  OK Here is my thread!

  by Angharad in

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  for yadira, here is my thought provoking thread .

  people have been asking what simon is really like, so here is a quick profile of him.. .

  he spends a lot of time working on his computer you should be glad you dont hear the language when he discovers a bug in his programs .

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  I loved it! Thank you!

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  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  my story

  by uptownkat in

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  i am a new member and wanted to share my story.

  i have been reading quite a few messages and personal experiences on this website and found some that i could relate to and some i couldnt.

  let me start my story.

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  Welcome to the board. I am happy to know that your family is supportive. It is sad to me that they are very much the exception in this organization.

  Joy2befree, Hello!

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  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  Amethyst the (former) Jehovah Witness Stripper

  by Quotes in

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  someone recently posted a link to the mp3 song: "joanie, the jehovah witness stripper.".

  while trying to find out who performs that song, look what i found: the story of "amethyst the (former) jehovah witness stripper".

  i found that the song "joanie the jehovah's witness stripper" was by an artist named "paul thorn", his website is http://www.paulthorn.com/.

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  OOPS .... went back and re-read your post .... I see you have the info already. If anyone reading here hasn't heard the song ... you really ought to ... it is a hoot!

  BobsGirl

  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  Amethyst the (former) Jehovah Witness Stripper

  by Quotes in

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  someone recently posted a link to the mp3 song: "joanie, the jehovah witness stripper.".

  while trying to find out who performs that song, look what i found: the story of "amethyst the (former) jehovah witness stripper".

  i found that the song "joanie the jehovah's witness stripper" was by an artist named "paul thorn", his website is http://www.paulthorn.com/.

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  My husband has the Joanie the Jehovahs Witness stripper MP3 and he knows the name of the artist ... I will have him post the info and if you would like for him to email you the mp3 I am sure he would be glad to.

  BobsGirl

  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  Should we fear death?

  by sleepy in

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  should we fear death?.

  how do you feel about dying?.

  after leaving the witnesses i find i am ever more aware of my own mortality.before i could comfort myself with the idea that i could be ressurected.i think the realisation that death will completly end my life , and that there was nothing afterward , was one of the most difficult things to come to terms with.. generally i don't think about it , but when some happens and i do , the idea , quite frankly scares the hell out of me.. but does death really bring the end to us?.

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  I can say that I love my life and will hang on to it with all of my might, but I do not have the fear of death that I used to.

  My young heart never fully bought into the WT philosophies, so I was always fearing that the coming “new system” meant death for me anyway. Upon separation from the Borg … I realized that death would be a kinder fate than eternal life with that philosophy.

  I don’t know any more about death than I ever have, but I feel pretty sure that my sprit has been around for a long time … and while my body may expire …. I believe my spirit will continue to be around. I don’t know why I believe this, I have no proof … it is just a quiet internal understanding that brings me peace.

  BobsGirl

  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  I'm New - my story

  by Judith_01 in

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  hi everyone, i too have been lurking for a few weeks and thought it was time i made myself known.

  i am not a jw but i am married to a man who is from a multi-generational family of jw's (although he has not been to meetings since he was old enough to object).

  although i have never had any direct involvement with the organisation itself, i find my life is constantly infulenced by these people who judge, shun and avoid my husband and i (i guess they don't want to mix with "worldy people" such as us).

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  Judith,

  Thanks for sharing, and welcome! Your family group sounds very much like mine. I am also from a multi-generational JW family and I was the one to walk away.

  As for your query about questioning the existance of God upon exiting the faith .... My experience was a little different. For as long as I was associated with JW's I questioned the existance of God .. because so may of their teachings were illogical. It wasn't until after my exodus that I became conviced that there is some power greater than myself that is taking good and gentle care of me and mine. I am NOT religious ... and I would not call myself Christian ... but I do now believe in the existance of a Supreme Being/Universal Force/Higher Power/God.

  BobsGirl

  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi
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  Passing water at assemblies.............

  by ISP in

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  the mens toilets were generally ok, never got to see the sisters.......but the sisters had to queue!!!

  !i mean, really long lines!.

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  They used to tape paper over the mirrors in the women’s' restrooms at our conventions to encourage the sisters to move faster. I didn't work ... the sisters would just rip a corner of the paper and try to fix their hair/makeup in the reflection of a small torn corner taking 2x as long as it would have taken if the paper wasn't there in the first place .

  Geeze .... talk about a controlling group of bastards ....

  BobsGirl

  "May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi