you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.
i absolutely cannot function in this environment.
it's just nuts.
Missy,You're a very nurtuing and sympatheitc person....with that in mind, I hope you move out soon. Your parents are dependant on your good qualities, however.... they need to respect the fact that you deserve to live your own life. You can't live through other people like this. I hope things work out...
- Preston
Thanks, Preston. Yah I wish they could realize that I do need to live my own life. Whether they understand or not though I am going to end up doing that.
~Sarah
you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.
i absolutely cannot function in this environment.
it's just nuts.
Winston Smith,
I think I will definetely look for that book!!
Thanks bunches,
~Sarah
you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.
i absolutely cannot function in this environment.
it's just nuts.
I know exactly what you are going through. I went through the same thing with my folks, only I was 21. My mom would start on me about if I leave and she dies it would be my fault.
Sounds exactly like something my mom would say. I am glad you made the decision that you did and that it turned out well!
~Sarah
you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.
i absolutely cannot function in this environment.
it's just nuts.
Thanks, SheilaM, you have a pm too
you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.
i absolutely cannot function in this environment.
it's just nuts.
Who starts the guilt tripping?
my mom. She overheard a conversation with a good friend of mine from the board here last night, when I was talking about possibly leaving. She started in with "if you do that you will be killing your father." and "over my dead body"
you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.
i absolutely cannot function in this environment.
it's just nuts.
(and when you can't no more ... what is going nuts good for ?)
Totally agreed. That's exactly the point.
you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.
i absolutely cannot function in this environment.
it's just nuts.
I hope your considering going to college or at least a vocational school when you move out. Life can be pretty hard without a higher education. Good luck and I hope everything works out for you.
Yah, I am eventually. I don't really know when, just that if I stay here I'll end up pulling out all my hair lol and I'll never get anything accomplished.
~Sarah
each one his christmas ... stupid christmas wish .... .
ok : i was zapping channels and felt on a movie.
with val kilmer with ... well ... almost nothing on, acting passionate and loving .... i want this guy in my bed right now .
Well I would like a JEEP!! LOL
lol actually I'd just like to have money to buy all my family and friends something.
you're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?.
i absolutely cannot function in this environment.
it's just nuts.
You're 18, (considered an adult), want to move out of your parents house to get away from your dysfunctional mom, and can't because you feel guilty leaving your mom and dad because your parents have alot of health problems?
I absolutely cannot function in this environment. It's just nuts. But as soon as I mention possibly leaving, the guilt trips start. I want to help them but there is only so much I can do. If I left I would get a job wherever I went and send them money or whatever to help..
~Sarah
Merry Christmas to you too, qwerty!!
hugs,
~Sarah
