IW,
You wrote: I am not a believer in the miracles reported in the NT. I do respect the man who is reported to have said the words of his Father, words that have enlightened and freed so many.
If we do not believe the miracles which the gospel writers recorded as actually having taken place, how can we really believe that a man named Jesus spoke the words those same writers attributed to him? After all, many of the words they quote him as having said were words they tell us he said in the course of performing the very miracles you do not believe ever took place. If they made up all those words, why should we believe they did not also make up most of the rest?
You wrote: What appeared to you as belief was merely an attempt to show Clash that his beliefs concerning women's place in the congregation is contrary to the place that Jesus (in the writings of the Apostle John) gave women, as opposed to Paul's writings.
I believe you are wrong about Paul's writings concerning women's place in the congregation.
I strongly believe that the words written by the apostle Paul, which are often understood to say that women are not allowed to hold positions of authority in Christian Churches, did not actually reflect the apostle Paul's own beliefs. The context of Paul's writings clearly indicates that Paul was in those passages actually citing false teachings then being promoted by others for the purpose of correcting those false teachings. This is not just my belief. Several books and articles have been written on this subject matter. I have explained this on this forum before. See this thread, a few posts down from the top:
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.asp?id=17102&site=3
If you have not read this essay, I hope you will do so before discussing this subject further. (In other words, try not to follow the example of Crash.)
You wrote: Jesus' teachings, illustrations, parables, etc., are not referred to by Paul. He really is silent on these things.
The same could be said just as easily of the writings of James, John, and Peter. Paul's letters and all the other writings which make up the New Testament were obviously not written as commentaries on the gospels. However, just because Paul did not extensively quote or comment on Christ's words does not indicate that he and his writings were not greatly influenced by the teachings of Jesus Christ. Paul taught extensively on the importance of showing love to others, as did Jesus Christ. Paul taught extensively on the importance of our Christian freedom, which Christ said his teachings would give us. When Paul said things like, "I have not coveted anyone's silver or gold or clothing," and "It is more blessed to give than to receive," he obviously had in mind "words the Lord Jesus himself said." (Acts 20:33-35; Matt. 10:8-10; Luke 6:38)
You wrote: The early congregations did not have the Gospels in hand, they had Paul's letters.
Many scholars disagree with you on that. There is, however, little disagreement among scholars that all of Paul's letters were written between the years AD 50 and 64, most of them in the later years of that time frame. John A. T. Robinson who is not a "conservative" Christian, with the help of much historical evidence, dates the writing of Matthew to AD 40! (Redating The New Testament - 1976) The fact is, even many quite liberal scholars believe that a very lengthy written account of the life of Christ was widely circulated among Christians before the year AD 50. They believe both Matthew and Mark based their gospels upon this document, which they refer to as "Q."
The early church fathers tell us that Matthew wrote his account first. Many modern critics say Mark wrote his first. In either case, almost everyone agrees that they both wrote before Luke. So, let's figure this out. It is evident that the book of Acts was written in approximately AD 62. Why? First, because it does not mention the fall of Jerusalem in AD 70, an event which would have been impossible to omit since Jerusalem is central to so much of Acts. Second, neither is anything mentioned about Nero's great persecution of Christians in AD 64. Third, Acts ends with Paul in Rome under the confinement of Nero. But it does not mention his martyrdom in AD 64. Why not? After all, it records the deaths of both Stephen and James.
With such things in mind, it is widely understood that Acts was almost certainly written in about the year AD 61. And since it was, the gospel of Luke must have been written even earlier, probably in the late 50s. Why? Because Luke wrote Acts and in doing so he referred back to the writing of his earlier gospel account when he said, "The first account I composed, Theophilus (the Roman official to whom Luke addressed the book of Acts and his account of Christ's life and teachings), about all that Jesus began to do and teach." (Acts 1:1; Luke 1:1-3) So, since we know that Acts was written in about AD 61, and that Luke was written before Acts, and that Matthew and Mark were written before Luke, and that most of Paul's letters were written in the late 50s and early 60s, we have every reason to believe that any early congregations which possessed Paul's letters or copies of them also possessed copies of Matthew's, Mark's and Luke's gospels.