Yes, So much of my family are still super in. This is my 10th summer out. I managed a great fade after the our lazy study conductor mucked up so I saw my opportunity to get out with them not being able to do anything because I had the sympathy of the cong publishers that all new i was doing more than he was. Looking after all his duties as well as my own because his work took him away a lot of the time. Anyway, That's long ago & I"M FREE AT LAST, FREE AT LAST, FREE AT LAST & IT'S GREAT. Great to hear from you & you're right about seeing people. There still where they have been all there lives. Phats.
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28I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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May I ask how old you are? I'm 52. Phats.
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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SafeAtHome. It's crazy sometimes but me & my daughter can be surrounded by super JWs at family parties & they've got no idea of how we really feel. Sometime I really suffer from a nervous laugh when we look at each other. Phats.
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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How about you?
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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Yes, The Pic is my alter ego Phats. Thats is the most peace loving, easy going person you could ever meet. Let me tell you this, I think you would be suprised.
My wife is cool with everything. This month records my 10 anniversary out. Phats.
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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No answers? Is everyone okay out there or am I missing something. Have this changed from how they were 2 years ago? Great to hear from someone. Phats.
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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How is the Forum going? It looks very different to the platform of 2 years ago. Is Billy the bethelite still in contact? Phats.
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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Anyway, yes. Somehow we have managed to work things out. even against all the odds.
Check this out.
Me. Out 10 years & NEVER going back.
Wife. In her entire life NEVER coming out.
First child. Out. We are both super close with no issues. (Daughter Living with boyfriend)
Second child really questioning things as she's been taught to think for herself.
My Mother 92 years old IN Been in 60 years.
Father. NEVER in dead now.Love you Dad.
Inlaws. Both IN IN IN IN SUPER IN. Pioneers, Long term Elder, PO, CS, Head of this, head of that. (You know the type)
Anyway. I must say this. Me & My Misses love each other. 30 years married. We want US to work out good. Sod everyone else but we must allow each of us to live without constant guilt, total submission or constant selfishness. I don't know realy but for it's about honest Love. If you're both on the same page then anything can be sorted. I think :)
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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Well smiddy, This is the thing. We are both born ins. My wife was on of the classic good natured supporting sister. Proper stalwart sister without any malice in here heart & somehow she has managed to keep all of that whilest taking on board the facts that are around her. as for me, I love justice & fairness. I don't want to sound pompous but I hav always hated underhandedness & greed. I got to the point where I could no long take the injustice, the lies, the nepotism & on & on & on. I tried all I could not to get appointed but it happened (That is a massive story that will show any wonderers) But there I was. a ms & now seeing even more unchristian behaviour buy those that were in charge as it was but never said. Sorry for my ramble. & my spelling. I'm dyslexic. I own a business in the music business & am doing really well. I think it's because the music biz is full of all types believe me. Phats.
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I'm back
by phats inhi everyone, phats here.
i haven't posted for about 2 years as things have been so busy with work + a nervous breakdown along the way so been on meds & all sorts but things but are now beginning to get stronger & the mists are clearing.
business is great with loads of work.
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Here's a link for any one interested https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/280954/hello-from-phats
Let me tell you. I've got a very funny tale to tel.